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Periscope Replay |Taking a Break From Our Marriage



Honestly, I don't know much about this couple and can only speculate about their situation just like others watching the video they shared on Youtube.  I thought it would still be useful to have a conversation about certain aspects of what they shared, but in a general sense.



If you watch the Scope you'll notice that I'm pretty passionate about marriage.  I know that there are times when despite a person's best efforts, the relationship isn't saved.  My point is to always consider whether we are taking the most productive steps we can toward working things out.  Sometimes we do the best we can with what we know.



I hope that by sharing what I know from personal experience, someone may consider a different perspective and possibly gain ground.

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  1. LeeMay 26, 2016 at 9:22 AM

    I think it is sad that they didn't just stop you tubing and then work on their marriage.

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    1. I am a Mocha MomMay 26, 2016 at 2:56 PM

      Someone commented on the video that they aren't actually married, just together for 10 years. Either way, that's a long time. I hope they are able to work things out.

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